Men’s constant issues with the opposite sex never seem to go away, but when it comes to matters of the bedroom, the issue of pre mature ejaculation, is one of those seriously taboo issues. But Why! What most men fail to recognise is that the biggest sex organ we have is not between our legs but in fact, between our ears.
According to the listings on Wiki - Premature ejaculation is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to and is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation. Masters and Johnson define as the condition in which a man ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm, in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters. There is no agreed upon criteria, so don’t panic. And there are two types primary, which is present from the time a male begins puberty, and secondary which is acquired later in the man's life.
Premature Ejaculation can be further divided between; Global Premature Ejaculation, which occurs with all partners and in all contexts and Situational Premature Ejaculation which occurs in certain situation or with specific partners. If you are as confused as me – again don’t panic. Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes men to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, if at all, an accurate prevalence rate is hard to determine, estimates range from as low as 5% to as high as 30% researchers have begun to form a quantitative definition of premature ejaculation.
Current evidence supports an average intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT) of six and a half minutes in 18-30 year olds. If the disorder is defined as an IELT percentile below 2.5, then premature ejaculation could be suggested by an IELT of less than about 2 minutes. Nevertheless, it is possible that men with abnormally low IELTs could be "happy" with their performance and do not report a lack of control. Likewise men with higher IELTs may consider themselves premature ejaculators, suffer from detrimental side effects normally associated with premature ejaculation, and even benefit from treatment.
I keep on reading and they say psychological factors commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. While men sometimes underestimate the relationship between sexual performance and emotional well-being, premature ejaculation can be caused by temporary depression, stress over financial matters, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy.
Neurological premature ejaculation can also lead to other forms of sexual dysfunction, or intensify the existing problem, by creating performance anxiety. In a less pathological context, premature ejaculation could also be caused simply by extreme arousal. But wait there is more. Another suggestion offered by evolutionary biologists to explain premature ejaculation in young or inexperienced men is that early ejaculation maximizes the chances of impregnating a female if sex is infrequent, furtive, or rushed. For example, males who are lower in the social hierarchy, especially among troupe primates such as chimpanzees, sexual access to females can be usually limited to dominant males; therefore, male chimpanzees taking covert advantage of rare copulatory opportunities will have greater likelihood of impregnating a female and passing on his genes if he achieves climax quickly.
The body may interpret infrequent sex as evidence of scarcity and therefore attempt to utilize that potentially limited opportunity by passing genes as quickly as possible. So my blog is with great assistance from Wiki but please don’t panic and if you really need to do something about it – go and see a real doctor or share with us.